I have a weakness for guys/girls who:

Are composed of seemingly obvious dichotomies: geeky but/and athletic, intellectual but/and low-brow, emotionally intelligent but/and brutally honest.

For me, a first date no-no is:

Being boring. Please, please don't be boring. I'd rather you be offensive than boring.

A story you should remind me to tell you on our first date:

That one time when I peed my pants during the first grade spelling bee (and still won, mind you).

I secretly want to be:

a boxer.

I want to be with someone who wants to be:

Kind, more than anything else.

An infatuation of mine:

Motown music

If I won the lottery and quit my job, I would:

Donate a ton of it, spend a little of it, and use the rest to start social ventures.